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<figure id="figure-j48ira8qnmdq9d26g" class=""><img id="j48ira8qnmdq9d26g" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/daRhTbSiEHF2uuXghuVgVL6bT7V1F4rDZaslrq9KuZyVNTqVTPMHGTApjFsvE1uE.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: 50% 15%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="15%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/daRhTbSiEHF2uuXghuVgVL6bT7V1F4rDZaslrq9KuZyVNTqVTPMHGTApjFsvE1uE.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: 50% 15%;"></figure><h3>The Sweet Simplicity of Tea Parties with My Granddaughters</h3><p><br><strong>In a world that often moves far too fleetingly, I’ve found one of life’s greatest joys is capturing a moment in my grandaughters’ lives for one of our legendary tea parties. There’s something magical about setting the table with their miniature tea set, a teapot filled with something fruity and sweet, and tiny treats that seem almost too pretty to eat. These are not elaborate affairs — no silver trays or starched linens — but they are perfect in their own way.</strong><br></p><figure id="figure-lcqk7h7uejmdq9z4co"><img id="lcqk7h7uejmdq9z4co" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/859635106/photo/afternoon-tea-for-two.jpg?b=1&s=2048x2048&w=0&k=20&c=88H4v60nxPPv92AT8KK62S6La6Cgh1f7W1fK1ZTs8dc=" alt="Afternoon tea for two" title="Afternoon tea for two" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><p><strong>What begins as play turns into something far richer. These tea parties are a sanctuary, a little bubble of love and imagination where time seems to pause just for us. I watch their faces light up as they pour “tea” (usually lukewarm lemonade or watered-down juice) into delicate cups. They stir carefully, mimicking what they’ve seen, and we clink our cups with the utmost seriousness and pinkies extended, as though we’re at Buckingham Palace itself.</strong></p><p><strong>But more than anything, these moments are about connection. They give us the chance to talk, to laugh, to share stories and to let our imagination run wild. My granddaughters tell me about their dreams and about their lives — and I tell them stories of when their parents were their age. There’s something healing and wholesome in the way generations meet over pretend sugar cubes</strong><br><strong>and stuffed animal guests</strong>.</p><figure id="figure-9cjw98qe9mdq9f3bh"><img id="9cjw98qe9mdq9f3bh" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1198596485/photo/little-girl-serving-tea-to-her-toy-bear.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LIcjOiZpDABzzeaaEpCQ3PDZ1FwTukS_hTJImcKjE6s=" alt="Little girl serving tea to her toy bear" title="Little girl serving tea to her toy bear" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1198596485/photo/little-girl-serving-tea-to-her-toy-bear.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LIcjOiZpDABzzeaaEpCQ3PDZ1FwTukS_hTJImcKjE6s=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>Bridging Generations with a Beat</h3><p><br><strong>And then, just when we think the party is winding down, someone inevitably suggests music. What starts as a gentle background of classical music suited to a genteel tea party quickly becomes the next chapter of our gathering. They introduce me to their favorite pop songs — cheerful, catchy tunes that we sing along to at the top of our lungs. </strong></p><p><strong>Music, the great leveler, turns us all into “Swifties.” In return, I play them some classic rock n’ roll and they fall over laughing that their grandmother used to rock out to groups with names like Aerosmith, Lynyrd Skynyrd, and The Eagles. We laugh, compare dance moves, and talk about how music makes us feel. I’m always amazed by how easily music builds a bridge between our generations. For a few moments, we’re just girls — not separated by decades, but united by melody and movement.</strong></p><figure id="figure-mu8cr7f5somdq9hvzi" class=""><img id="mu8cr7f5somdq9hvzi" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1208992215/photo/energetic-grandmother-have-fun-dancing-with-little-granddaughter.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ECwEcBKutsOq96-N7X7XaKhIPVZb8_YZOl7PY3Y4qFg=" alt="Energetic grandmother have fun dancing with little granddaughter" title="Energetic grandmother have fun dancing with little granddaughter" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1208992215/photo/energetic-grandmother-have-fun-dancing-with-little-granddaughter.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ECwEcBKutsOq96-N7X7XaKhIPVZb8_YZOl7PY3Y4qFg=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;"></figure><h3>From Tea to Twirls</h3><p><br><strong>I’ve learned to never underestimate the power of a tea party to turn into a full-blown dance party.The table is pushed aside, the dolls cheer from the sidelines, and suddenly we’re twirling around the room, laughing until our cheeks hurt. Whether it’s the latest Taylor Swift song or an old rock n’ roll classic, the joy is the same. </strong></p><p><strong>It’s in those impromptu moments — spinning in circles, hands clasped, skirts flying — that memories are made. And in between the laughter and the dancing, I catch little glimpses of something timeless: the way love weaves itself through generations, the way joy doesn’t need to be planned, and the way childhood and wisdom can hold hands in the middle of the living room floor.</strong></p><figure id="figure-mewwemdr2smdq9nkav"><img id="mewwemdr2smdq9nkav" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1286148497/photo/girl-and-her-grandmother-enjoying-sunny-morning.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-vC0BQQAotywbNi1U1utdmVu9mMZAkv1EJnrBZiW2nU=" alt="girl and her grandmother enjoying sunny morning" title="girl and her grandmother enjoying sunny morning" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1286148497/photo/girl-and-her-grandmother-enjoying-sunny-morning.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-vC0BQQAotywbNi1U1utdmVu9mMZAkv1EJnrBZiW2nU=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>The Legacy in the Little Things</h3><p><br><strong>What I treasure most is knowing that these memories, though simple, will last. Long after the cups have been packed away and the dolls are put to rest and the “coolness” of the teen years take their place, I hope they'll remember the fun and pretend glamour of our tea parties and how it felt to be cherished, heard, and loved so very much. And I hope they’ll carry that warmth with them — maybe even pass it on one day.</strong></p><figure id="figure-ahj49h18njmdq9wb8e"><img id="ahj49h18njmdq9wb8e" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1bNQ7ZXCRI2tUzcJWkXg41TIzTo8j6t0dNa4FWrAH6gPZthG5YuV997Fm64AcLMn.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 20%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="20%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1bNQ7ZXCRI2tUzcJWkXg41TIzTo8j6t0dNa4FWrAH6gPZthG5YuV997Fm64AcLMn.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 20%;"></figure><h3><br><strong>So, if you ever get the chance to have a tea party with a child — don’t rush it. </strong></h3><h3><strong>Lean in. Sip slowly. </strong></h3><h3><strong>Turn up the music. Let yourself dance.</strong></h3><h3><strong> Because in those moments, you’re not just sharing tea — you’re sharing love, laughter, and a bit of everyday magic that will echo for years to come.</strong></h3>

Tea Party Magic

Opportunity, rise and improvement concept

<blockquote><h3>Opportunities don’t always arrive wrapped in shiny paper or announced with trumpets. Sometimes, they come quietly—in a conversation, a burden, a door left slightly ajar. But when God gives us an opportunity, it’s not just a chance—it’s an invitation. An invitation to grow, to obey, and to participate in something bigger than ourselves.</h3></blockquote><h3>Let’s walk through what it looks like to recognize and respond to God-given opportunities.</h3><figure id="figure-12x2qjyaehmd3i98cr"><img id="12x2qjyaehmd3i98cr" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1307265503/photo/helping-hands.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=eYbWB2VyflkoB1QJk7rayBhpPhit5WrlQE-Hq8D3Q1c=" alt="Helping hands." title="Helping hands." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1307265503/photo/helping-hands.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=eYbWB2VyflkoB1QJk7rayBhpPhit5WrlQE-Hq8D3Q1c=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>1. Recognizing the Opportunity</h3><p><br><strong>Sometimes the hardest part isn’t doing the thing—it’s realizing the thing is from God. </strong></p><p><strong>We’re often waiting for fireworks, but God speaks through the ordinary. That person who keeps coming to mind? That nudge to serve somewhere new? That job you didn’t think you were qualified for but can’t shake?</strong></p><p><strong>God’s opportunities often look like interruptions, inconveniences, or even burdens. But through prayer and reflection, we begin to see that these aren't random—they're divine setups.</strong></p><blockquote><h3>Ask yourself: Is this drawing me closer to God? Does it align with His character? Is it pulling me out of comfort and toward purpose?</h3></blockquote><figure id="figure-m9z7xaxqjemd3i8nk5"><img id="m9z7xaxqjemd3i8nk5" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2190395569/photo/hands-prayer-and-bible-for-religion-in-home-with-worship-peace-and-reading-for-spiritual.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=5O9KT2CYq2Z-0o0ESY0oWgLA_TWyIZf0NHtoH8P81Jo=" alt="Hands, prayer and bible for religion in home with worship, peace and reading for spiritual guide. Person, Christian book and faith with reflection with scripture for connection to God at apartment" title="Hands, prayer and bible for religion in home with worship, peace and reading for spiritual guide. Person, Christian book and faith with reflection with scripture for connection to God at apartment" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2190395569/photo/hands-prayer-and-bible-for-religion-in-home-with-worship-peace-and-reading-for-spiritual.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=5O9KT2CYq2Z-0o0ESY0oWgLA_TWyIZf0NHtoH8P81Jo=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>&nbsp;<br>2. Discerning What To Do With It</h3><p><br><strong>Recognition is only the first step. </strong></p><p><strong>Next comes discernment. Not every good thing is a “God thing,” and not every opportunity is yours to chase. This is where we listen closely, pray deeply, and seek godly counsel.</strong></p><p><strong>Sometimes God calls us to act. Sometimes He calls us to wait. Discernment is the art of knowing which is which.</strong></p><p><strong>Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us: </strong></p><blockquote><p>“Trust in the Lord with all your heart...and He will direct your paths.”</p></blockquote><figure id="figure-rcdto3z6dmd3ibo77"><img id="rcdto3z6dmd3ibo77" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1460243570/photo/spiritual-message-on-white-circle-paper-in-hand-one-day-you-will-see-why-god-made-you-wait.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=NjqYMHxsLlIc_KmoAUrkh2_WB7EcoBNOgwvH6__f-_M=" alt="Spiritual message on white circle paper in hand - One day you will see why God made  you wait." title="Spiritual message on white circle paper in hand - One day you will see why God made  you wait." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1460243570/photo/spiritual-message-on-white-circle-paper-in-hand-one-day-you-will-see-why-god-made-you-wait.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=NjqYMHxsLlIc_KmoAUrkh2_WB7EcoBNOgwvH6__f-_M=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>&nbsp;<br>3. Understanding How God Reveals Guidance</h3><p><br><strong>God speaks in different ways—through Scripture, peace, godly mentors, conviction, open or closed doors. </strong></p><p><strong>But He is not silent.</strong></p><p><strong>If you’re unsure, don’t rush the decision. Spend time in His Word. Pay attention to repeated themes in your quiet time. Ask Him to confirm in a way you’ll understand. He’s a good Father who doesn’t play hide-and-seek with His will.</strong></p><blockquote><h3>Look for alignment: between His Word, His Spirit, and your situation.</h3></blockquote><figure id="figure-coa1ifsbygmd3idrbt"><img id="coa1ifsbygmd3idrbt" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1371197213/photo/faith-and-gratitude.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=RdnDTwWtjZPXuI5ttmR89aWvdxfIX6LNvK4zzfOdYBA=" alt="Faith and gratitude" title="Faith and gratitude" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1371197213/photo/faith-and-gratitude.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=RdnDTwWtjZPXuI5ttmR89aWvdxfIX6LNvK4zzfOdYBA=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>&nbsp;<br>4. The Opportunity May Not Be Easy</h3><p><br><strong>We often equate God’s will with ease. </strong></p><p><strong>But obedience doesn’t always mean comfort—it means surrender. Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it’s not from God. In fact, some of the most transformative opportunities come disguised as trials.</strong></p><p><strong>Ask Moses. Ask Esther. Ask Mary. When God invites us into something meaningful, it usually stretches us.</strong></p><blockquote><h3>Obstacles don’t mean detours—they often mean you're right on track.</h3></blockquote><figure id="figure-8stw9iozwmd3ierfu"><img id="8stw9iozwmd3ierfu" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1650635552/photo/blue-sky-with-clouds-and-country-road-with-white-arrow.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=FGPuqG6NzW5rgdYnmkgfRY-A4yGP_XA-1l_zSYU9b18=" alt="Blue sky with clouds and country road with white arrow" title="Blue sky with clouds and country road with white arrow" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1650635552/photo/blue-sky-with-clouds-and-country-road-with-white-arrow.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=FGPuqG6NzW5rgdYnmkgfRY-A4yGP_XA-1l_zSYU9b18=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>&nbsp;<br>5. Taking Action</h3><p><br><strong>Eventually, faith has to move. </strong></p><p><strong>Once you’ve recognized it, discerned it, and received guidance—there comes a time to act. Even if your knees are shaking. Even if you don’t have all the answers yet.</strong></p><p><strong>Don’t wait for the perfect moment. God often works as you go.</strong></p><p><strong>James 2:17 reminds us that </strong></p><blockquote><p>“faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”</p></blockquote><figure id="figure-1xmmfb4m0mmd3igkfn"><img id="1xmmfb4m0mmd3igkfn" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1277215694/photo/strong-man-flexing-with-hand.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=c5pboF5DJAi9e2eBoPyysCqOyK-0GyqgmjFDq56nX_8=" alt="Strong man flexing with hand" title="Strong man flexing with hand" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1277215694/photo/strong-man-flexing-with-hand.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=c5pboF5DJAi9e2eBoPyysCqOyK-0GyqgmjFDq56nX_8=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2>&nbsp;<br>Closing Thought:</h2><blockquote><h3><br>Opportunities from God are more than chances—they are callings.Be faithful to see them, brave enough to step into them, and humble enough to give Him the glory when the doors open wide.</h3><h3>You were created for moments like this.</h3></blockquote>

When God Gives Us Opportunities: Recognize, Respond, and Rise

<h3>The minute I bent over the side of my husband’s truck to heft the 30-pound bag of ground corn from the pickup bed, I knew I was in trouble!</h3><p>What was I thinking? Even twenty years ago, this would have been a strenuous task, and here I was struggling with the weight of this chore that could have easily waited.</p><p>After all, my husband had promised he would unload the two bags later in the day but... well, you guessed it. Not only am I an impatient creature, but I am stubborn as well—and I wanted the job done <strong>RIGHT NOW!</strong></p><figure id="figure-8vn0ex5x4mcgsdap4"><img id="8vn0ex5x4mcgsdap4" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2169701417/photo/dog-sitting-in-drivers-seat-in-vintage-pick-up-truck.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=y13-hqHv0fnTnK7PGy7N9piNWoMZTA9hhAOgObk-g3s=" alt="Dog Sitting In Drivers Seat In Vintage Pick Up Truck" title="Dog Sitting In Drivers Seat In Vintage Pick Up Truck" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2169701417/photo/dog-sitting-in-drivers-seat-in-vintage-pick-up-truck.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=y13-hqHv0fnTnK7PGy7N9piNWoMZTA9hhAOgObk-g3s=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p>And so, as the weighty bag cleared the edge of the truck and settled down in my arms with a force I hadn’t been prepared for, I felt something give in my left hip—and then a sharp pain radiated down my leg. Well, now I was really annoyed but still determined to finish the task.</p><p>I awkwardly hefted the bag over my shoulder (ouch!) and limped to the back of the garage, where I unceremoniously dumped the bag in a heap on the ground. I actually gave it a kick for good measure, although for the life of me, I couldn’t figure out why I was taking out my frustration on an inanimate bag of corn.</p><p><br></p><figure id="figure-4136zt0f5mcgsgw2z"><img id="4136zt0f5mcgsgw2z" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1308987649/photo/full-frame-of-corn-cereal.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ypfBSAjJHESfe3MVygdPiwXDxIzunHoF4bISKbpMNj0=" alt="Full frame of corn cereal" title="Full frame of corn cereal" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1308987649/photo/full-frame-of-corn-cereal.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ypfBSAjJHESfe3MVygdPiwXDxIzunHoF4bISKbpMNj0=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><br>For the next three days, while I alternated between sitting first on an ice pack and then a heating pad—and reaching for the ibuprofen every four hours—I had time to think about all the unnecessary heavy lifting we do in this life.</p><p>I’m speaking metaphorically, of course. On an average day, the tasks I have planned fill a page on my to-do list. And sometimes, for every task I cross off, I add two more to the list!</p><h3>Do you ever feel overwhelmed with all the things you have to do?</h3><figure id="figure-e1aitjk2zvmcgsirbd"><img id="e1aitjk2zvmcgsirbd" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2156204335/photo/work-work-work.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=09XpLHJjDLLhhn6MiFAD47WTdPLm4eUpf1TSn1-Q3Ac=" alt="work, work, work" title="work, work, work" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2156204335/photo/work-work-work.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=09XpLHJjDLLhhn6MiFAD47WTdPLm4eUpf1TSn1-Q3Ac=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p>Somehow, we humans (especially in our culture) have fallen into the thinking that the more we achieve, the harder we work, the more we accomplish in a given day—the more successful we are.</p><p>At the end of the day, as our heads hit our pillows, how many of us spend time taking stock of everything we did during the day... and start thinking about all that’s waiting for us tomorrow?</p><p>And when do we ever say to ourselves, “Yep, I got everything done. Nothing more to do here”? Rarely, I would guess.</p><figure id="figure-6z98jx5zwqmcgss94k" class=""><img id="6z98jx5zwqmcgss94k" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1341538379/photo/close-up-of-businessmans-hands-filling-a-checklist.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-UI0E7NKHUhRhgvux6JBOFB_KUCZEc1eMH13UV_iajA=" alt="Close-up of businessmans hands filling a checklist" title="Close-up of businessmans hands filling a checklist" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1341538379/photo/close-up-of-businessmans-hands-filling-a-checklist.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-UI0E7NKHUhRhgvux6JBOFB_KUCZEc1eMH13UV_iajA=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><br>I’ve also noticed that when I try to do everything myself, in my own stubborn way, without even asking the Lord for a little help, it usually goes sideways. And I make more work (or pain) for myself than was necessary.</p><p>I imagine the Lord looking down and just shaking His head as He watches His people struggle when we don’t have to.</p><p>The Bible tells us that God will help us with every big and little thing we undertake—if we just ask Him. God will gladly shoulder our burdens or help us carry them, if we just ask.</p><p>He was built for heavy lifting. We were not.</p><figure id="figure-6fmajac5xsmcgsm95f"><img id="6fmajac5xsmcgsm95f" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1180387909/photo/funny-retro-sport-nerd-lifting-weights.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=fgZpfHAUGTCq292zAQKILMlrwITH1KGtR5JPnNA-rgM=" alt="Funny retro sport nerd lifting weights" title="Funny retro sport nerd lifting weights" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1180387909/photo/funny-retro-sport-nerd-lifting-weights.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=fgZpfHAUGTCq292zAQKILMlrwITH1KGtR5JPnNA-rgM=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p>&nbsp;<br>I get the idea of asking God for help with the big things—in all of life’s really hard moments: the illness, grief, physical threat, depression. Of course, we know God is there for us, that He will carry us and carry our burden too.</p><p>But the little things—really? Isn’t that somehow demeaning to the Lord to ask for help with all the little stuff?</p><p>With all the really important things He has going on—like wars, famine, human strife, natural disasters, hunger, and crime, just to name a few? Well, the short answer is no. </p><h3>God expects us to turn to Him for help with everything.</h3><p>If you don’t believe me, just give it a try. I started doing this (inconsistently, I admit) a few years ago.</p><p>At first, I felt foolish sending up short prayers for assistance with things like preparing a meal, driving a short distance to the store, or even doing yardwork or playing with my grandchildren.</p><p><br></p><figure id="figure-7u5h7m1osmcgsowmy"><img id="7u5h7m1osmcgsowmy" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2158835167/photo/close-up-little-hand-of-child-baby-holding-hand-of-mother-a-newborn-holds-on-to-moms-dads.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=xqn_e3-KXua65Y8cpfANmkGvvZgAKllMH7_4CJCBwII=" alt="Close-up little hand of child baby holding hand of mother, A newborn holds on to mom's, dad's finger, Love and relationship with infant, Care and support, Dreaming and protection" title="Close-up little hand of child baby holding hand of mother, A newborn holds on to mom's, dad's finger, Love and relationship with infant, Care and support, Dreaming and protection" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2158835167/photo/close-up-little-hand-of-child-baby-holding-hand-of-mother-a-newborn-holds-on-to-moms-dads.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=xqn_e3-KXua65Y8cpfANmkGvvZgAKllMH7_4CJCBwII=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p><br>But then, I noticed how much smoother every task went and how much more enjoyable everything became. I wasn’t as tired after a mammoth shopping trip for groceries because I spent less time wandering up and down aisles looking fruitlessly for items on my list.</p><p>The grandkids didn’t bicker as much and we spent more time laughing together. My yardwork was a pleasure because I didn’t have to make a half-dozen trips to the gardening shed for something I had forgotten.&nbsp;<br></p><p>Just recently, I was doing a sewing project with my two granddaughters, and as I started to thread the needle on my sewing machine, I stopped, looked Heavenward, and said a quick:</p><p><strong>“Help me, Lord, to thread this needle.”</strong></p><figure id="figure-omuzgouleemcgsxhv4"><img id="omuzgouleemcgsxhv4" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2178668815/photo/a-woman-threads-a-sewing-machine-needle-sewing-needle-and-foot-in-a-sewing-machine-sewing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=3bFbGjWFz2SZvNUh61muyDJ8tVSJbgUQiQkQPMIc16k=" alt="A woman threads a sewing machine needle. Sewing needle and foot in a sewing machine. Sewing production. Advertising background, space for text. Atelier." title="A woman threads a sewing machine needle. Sewing needle and foot in a sewing machine. Sewing production. Advertising background, space for text. Atelier." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2178668815/photo/a-woman-threads-a-sewing-machine-needle-sewing-needle-and-foot-in-a-sewing-machine-sewing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=3bFbGjWFz2SZvNUh61muyDJ8tVSJbgUQiQkQPMIc16k=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><p>My ten-year-old granddaughter looked perplexed.<br>“Why are you doing that, Grandma?” she asked.</p><p>I smiled a bit ruefully, wishing I had learned this lesson long ago.<br>“Because, my dear,” I answered,<br>“I just can’t do stuff myself as good as God can.”</p><p>And her six-year-old sister piped up,<br>“Well, that makes perfect sense.”</p><p>And now at the end of the day, as my head nestles into my pillow, <strong>instead of thinking over the day’s accomplishments and planning tomorrow’s tasks, I just simply thank God for doing all the heavy lifting today—</strong></p><h3>And sleep peacefully, knowing He will be there tomorrow to do it again.</h3>

A Little Help Here, Please!

<h2>Have you ever set ambitious goals, felt motivated to&nbsp;achieve them, only to hit a wall and lose your momentum?</h2><p>It's a common challenge, one we all face – believe me! Personal momentum is a powerful force that propels us toward success, but once it's lost, it can feel incredibly hard to regain. And while the beginning of a new year seems like a great time to build up steam, most of us emerge from the old year feeling tired, overwhelmed and just worn out. </p><p>No matter the reason, losing momentum can stall your progress and leave you frustrated. In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies to help you combat the loss of personal momentum and keep moving forward, even when things feel stagnant.</p><figure id="figure-5qppz2ntm58l14c6"><img id="5qppz2ntm58l14c6" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2152689881/photo/woman-in-a-house-terrace-drinking-coffee-and-breathing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LwVbgMkDqWi2GzMdieinzHLMzK7E22RGEDlllw62aEU=" alt="Woman in a house terrace drinking coffee and breathing" title="Woman in a house terrace drinking coffee and breathing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2152689881/photo/woman-in-a-house-terrace-drinking-coffee-and-breathing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LwVbgMkDqWi2GzMdieinzHLMzK7E22RGEDlllw62aEU=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>1. Give Yourself a Break</h2><p><br>Don’t beat yourself up. Momentum ebbs and flows, and it’s completely normal to experience periods of stagnation. Acceptance is key to moving forward, as it prevents you from spiraling into self-doubt. Once you’ve recognized that you’ve lost momentum, give yourself the grace to take a break, reset and take action.</p><figure id="figure-c0k9elgo9sm58l2syl"><img id="c0k9elgo9sm58l2syl" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2162617977/photo/2025-new-year-resolutions-on-notepad-with-coffee-and-laptop.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=uSYRMzoS9X9P8_DDTiVLt9EVnXbR35t0H6edMa3SLcY=" alt="2025 new year resolutions on notepad with coffee and laptop" title="2025 new year resolutions on notepad with coffee and laptop" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2162617977/photo/2025-new-year-resolutions-on-notepad-with-coffee-and-laptop.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=uSYRMzoS9X9P8_DDTiVLt9EVnXbR35t0H6edMa3SLcY=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>2. Revisit Your Goals and Find Your Why</h2><p><br>Sometimes, we lose momentum because we lose sight of why we started in the first place. Revisit your goals and take a hard look at your “why.” Why did you set this goal? Do your reasons still apply? Reflect on your initial motivation and ask yourself if it still resonates. Are you still passionate about the outcome? Reconnecting with your deeper motivations can reignite your drive, giving you a fresh sense of purpose. Remember, it’s okay to pivot. Our goals evolve just like the rest of life.</p><figure id="figure-1g6pxn6t2m58l44ms"><img id="1g6pxn6t2m58l44ms" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1217477816/photo/african-father-little-daughter-giving-high-five-showing-togetherness.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=y01p4kgq_OGvedS76B_8dUezWBhcRoWsDf4ZxzDuiLM=" alt="African father little daughter giving high five showing togetherness" title="African father little daughter giving high five showing togetherness" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1217477816/photo/african-father-little-daughter-giving-high-five-showing-togetherness.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=y01p4kgq_OGvedS76B_8dUezWBhcRoWsDf4ZxzDuiLM=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>3. Break It Down: Small Wins Matter</h2><p><br>Overwhelming tasks or long-term goals can often lead to burnout, which in turn drains our momentum. When you break your goal into smaller, manageable steps, you make progress easier to achieve. For example, if your goal is to run a marathon, break it into mini-goals. I would never run a marathon, even when I was younger and loved to run. But I can run a mile. And next week, maybe two. The smaller you make the steps, the less daunting the task becomes. And seriously, I would rather complete part of a task than nothing at all.</p><figure id="figure-n8bdyxzppgm58l6n3p"><img id="n8bdyxzppgm58l6n3p" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1294484119/photo/obsessive-compulsive-woman-aligning-up-pencils-on-a-table.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=yOpHPLm6AdQHKmEOwbP18e4M3_WwGhpIjMP8vLKnv-Q=" alt="Obsessive compulsive woman aligning up pencils on a table" title="Obsessive compulsive woman aligning up pencils on a table" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1294484119/photo/obsessive-compulsive-woman-aligning-up-pencils-on-a-table.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=yOpHPLm6AdQHKmEOwbP18e4M3_WwGhpIjMP8vLKnv-Q=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2>4. Avoid the Perfectionism Trap</h2><p>Perfectionism can be a major roadblock when trying to regain momentum. You might feel like if you can’t do something perfectly, it’s not worth doing at all. This can stop you from even taking the first step, which means momentum never gets a chance to build. Instead, focus on progress over perfection. Take imperfect action – even celebrate it. We are all humanly flawed and the quicker we accept that, the easier it is to get moving.</p><figure id="figure-s00q20agrpm58l7o5i"><img id="s00q20agrpm58l7o5i" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1443472741/photo/business-people-team-holds-in-hand-a-jigsaw-or-puzzle-pieces-in-the-office-for-concept-of.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Mie5d3QnjwfSxjI0gBZoLhOum315mEUUZUeZPKR5x9w=" alt="business people team holds in hand a jigsaw or puzzle pieces  in the office for concept of troubleshooting, teamwork, Unity and partnership. success and strategy concept." title="business people team holds in hand a jigsaw or puzzle pieces  in the office for concept of troubleshooting, teamwork, Unity and partnership. success and strategy concept." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1443472741/photo/business-people-team-holds-in-hand-a-jigsaw-or-puzzle-pieces-in-the-office-for-concept-of.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Mie5d3QnjwfSxjI0gBZoLhOum315mEUUZUeZPKR5x9w=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>5. Seek Support and Accountability</h2><p><br>When you’re feeling stuck, reaching out to others can be a huge help. Share your goals with a friend, mentor, or even a support group. Ask them for a good swift kick in the backside if that’s what it takes. Accountability not only gives you a sense of responsibility, but it also provides encouragement and feedback. Having someone to cheer you on is great, but sometimes they just need to tell you to get moving. Sharing insights with others can help reignite your enthusiasm and keep you moving when motivation falters.</p><figure id="figure-xvr9n2i71m58l9bd0"><img id="xvr9n2i71m58l9bd0" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1049721644/photo/man-reading-email-on-laptop-while-relaxing-on-beach.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=jEMdFvKtccFz_P0i2WPLOV74nNMTPGR48cPZwxZJVVs=" alt="Man reading email on laptop while relaxing on beach" title="Man reading email on laptop while relaxing on beach" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1049721644/photo/man-reading-email-on-laptop-while-relaxing-on-beach.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=jEMdFvKtccFz_P0i2WPLOV74nNMTPGR48cPZwxZJVVs=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>6. Change Your Environment</h2><p><br>I know, you’ve heard this before. But seriously, I can’t tell you how many times a new<br>environment encouraged me to get going. And believe it or not, just rearranging your workspace, organizing your “stuff,” or changing the pictures on your wall will have a big impact on your energy levels and momentum. Color schemes, especially in the winter months are vitally important to our energy levels. If you tend toward comforting pastels, try revitalizing your environment with bright, primary colors. You don’t have to repaint an entire room, just add some new splashes of color – a vibrant throw or stunning vase filled with bright fresh flowers. If you’ve been stuck in a rut, consider changing your venue. If at all possible, head to a local coffee shop for a change of pace. A change of scenery can refresh your mind, spark new ideas, and give you a fresh perspective on your goals.</p><figure id="figure-ui2h55botbm58lizxn"><img id="ui2h55botbm58lizxn" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2153541526/photo/inspirational-quote.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=EyKP8G1s0P56l5EH7EWbqw11u6ZIEhq015eXC8i5tU8=" alt="Inspirational Quote." title="Inspirational Quote." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2153541526/photo/inspirational-quote.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=EyKP8G1s0P56l5EH7EWbqw11u6ZIEhq015eXC8i5tU8=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>7. Embrace the Power of Patience and Count Your Blessings</h2><p><br>Finally, understand that regaining momentum takes time. There will be days when you feel like you’re not making progress. That’s okay. Personal momentum doesn’t happen overnight, and there will be setbacks along the way. Take a breath and count some blessings. Then take another breath. Trust that your momentum will gradually build. Remember, progress is progress, no matter how small.</p><figure id="figure-b2dugu4issm58lkxns"><img id="b2dugu4issm58lkxns" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1126962479/photo/hand-watering-young-plants-in-growing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=9F3NKsDNgCF8OUjaDPBzlZOFz0GpY_2VD1YmS34cf94=" alt="Hand Watering Young Plants In Growing" title="Hand Watering Young Plants In Growing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1126962479/photo/hand-watering-young-plants-in-growing.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=9F3NKsDNgCF8OUjaDPBzlZOFz0GpY_2VD1YmS34cf94=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2><br>Final Thoughts</h2><blockquote><p><br>Losing personal momentum is frustrating, but it doesn’t have to be permanent. By taking small, consistent actions and re-connecting with your goals, you can rebuild momentum and continue moving forward. It’s not about perfection; it’s about making steady progress and being kind to yourself along the way.</p></blockquote>

Loss Of Personal Momentum: Getting Back On Track

<blockquote><p>In a world that often prioritizes safety and predictability, the idea of taking risks can feel daunting. Yet, embracing boldness and stepping outside our comfort zones is essential for personal growth and fulfillment. Whether it’s pursuing a new career, starting a creative project, or simply speaking your mind, the rewards of taking risks can be transformative. Here’s why you should dare to be bold and how to cultivate a mindset that welcomes risk-taking.</p></blockquote><figure id="figure-shunbwti2cm259h7xf"><img id="shunbwti2cm259h7xf" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1489914169085-9b54fdd8f2a2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyfHxhZHZlbnR1cmUtam91cm5leXxlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mjg2ODM0MjV8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="adventure-journey" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1489914169085-9b54fdd8f2a2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyfHxhZHZlbnR1cmUtam91cm5leXxlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mjg2ODM0MjV8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h3>1. The Value of Comfort Zones</h3><p><strong>We all have comfort zones—those safe spaces where we feel secure and in control. While comfort zones provide a sense of stability, they can also limit our potential. Staying within these confines may protect us from failure, but it also hinders growth.</strong></p><p><strong> By recognizing that discomfort is often a precursor to growth, we can begin to shift our mindset. Embrace the idea that stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to exciting opportunities and experiences.</strong></p><figure id="figure-6myrct6drom259haev" class=""><img id="6myrct6drom259haev" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1570897234456-a6d0a709574f?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxN3x8c3VjY2Vzcy1hY2hpZXZlbWVudHxlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mjg2ODM0Mjh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="success-achievement" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1570897234456-a6d0a709574f?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxN3x8c3VjY2Vzcy1hY2hpZXZlbWVudHxlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mjg2ODM0Mjh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h3>2. Redefining Failure</h3><p><strong>One of the biggest barriers to taking risks is the fear of failure. Many of us have been conditioned to see failure as something negative, but it’s important to reframe this perception. Failure is not the end; it’s a stepping stone on the path to success. </strong></p><p><strong>Each misstep provides valuable lessons and insights that can inform our future decisions. By viewing failure as a necessary part of the journey, we can cultivate resilience and a willingness to take bold action. Ask every “overnight success” about their journey and you will be surprised at how many failures paved the road to that success</strong>.</p><figure id="figure-h7x7e6zzjm259hbts"><img id="h7x7e6zzjm259hbts" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1556155092-490a1ba16284?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxNnx8ZW50cmVwcmVuZXVyLWlubm92YXRpb258ZW58MHx8fHwxNzI4NjgzNDMwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="entrepreneur-innovation" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1556155092-490a1ba16284?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxNnx8ZW50cmVwcmVuZXVyLWlubm92YXRpb258ZW58MHx8fHwxNzI4NjgzNDMwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h3>3. Setting Clear Intentions</h3><p><strong>Before embarking on a risky endeavor, it can be helpful to set clear intentions. What do you hope to achieve by taking this risk? By defining your goals, you can better understand the potential rewards and motivate yourself to move forward. </strong></p><p><strong>Whether you want to grow personally, gain new skills, or pursue a passion, having a clear vision can help you navigate the uncertainties that come with risk-taking.</strong></p><figure id="figure-hqetzds04fm2nqqpsd"><img id="hqetzds04fm2nqqpsd" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1542435503-956c469947f6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMHx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ4MTB8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="pen near black lined paper and eyeglasses" title="pen near black lined paper and eyeglasses" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1542435503-956c469947f6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMHx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ4MTB8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>4. Start Small</h3><p><strong>If the idea of taking a big leap feels overwhelming, start with smaller risks. These incremental steps can build your confidence and help you acclimate to the discomfort of uncertainty. </strong></p><p><strong>For example, if you want to change careers, begin by doing research, networking with professionals in your desired field, taking an online course, or job shadowing. These small actions can create a foundation for larger risks down the line.</strong></p><figure id="figure-3wglqa4jvrm2nqsm3l"><img id="3wglqa4jvrm2nqsm3l" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1472289065668-ce650ac443d2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzN3x8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="two gray pencils on yellow surface" title="two gray pencils on yellow surface" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1472289065668-ce650ac443d2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzN3x8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>5. Seek Support and Inspiration</h3><p><strong>Surrounding yourself with supportive individuals can bolster your confidence and encourage you to take risks. Seek out friends, mentors, or communities who share your values and aspirations. Their encouragement can provide motivation when self-doubt creeps in. </strong></p><p><strong>Additionally, look for inspiration from those who have taken bold risks in their own lives. Their stories can remind you that courage often leads to incredible opportunities.</strong></p><figure id="figure-55bofm8uxqm2nqshk6"><img id="55bofm8uxqm2nqshk6" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1502465771179-51f3535da42c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2Nnx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTU2NTN8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="black framed eyeglasses and black pen" title="black framed eyeglasses and black pen" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1502465771179-51f3535da42c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2Nnx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTU2NTN8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>6. Embrace Change</h3><p><strong>Change is an inherent part of taking risks. Embracing change means letting go of the familiar and opening yourself up to new possibilities. While change can be unsettling, it can also be a catalyst for growth. </strong></p><p><strong>Practice mindfulness to help navigate these transitions. Focus on the present moment, and remind yourself that discomfort is a sign of growth.</strong></p><figure id="figure-7oyyucenum2nqsd7p"><img id="7oyyucenum2nqsd7p" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1503945438517-f65904a52ce6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMzh8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1NzMyfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="woman sitting beside table using laptop" title="woman sitting beside table using laptop" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1503945438517-f65904a52ce6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMzh8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1NzMyfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>7. Challenge Negative Self-Talk</h3><p><strong>Our inner dialogue can significantly influence our willingness to take risks. Negative self-talk often breeds fear and doubt, making it harder to step outside our comfort zones. </strong></p><p><strong>Pay attention to your thoughts and challenge any limiting beliefs. Replace “I can’t” with “I can learn” or “I’ll try.” By cultivating a more positive and empowering mindset, you’ll be better equipped to embrace boldness.</strong></p><figure id="figure-ekpmkzdfjgm2nqs8ip"><img id="ekpmkzdfjgm2nqs8ip" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1499750310107-5fef28a66643?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzOXx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="MacBook Pro, white ceramic mug,and black smartphone on table" title="MacBook Pro, white ceramic mug,and black smartphone on table" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1499750310107-5fef28a66643?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzOXx8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>8. Celebrate Your Courage</h3><p><strong>As you take risks, take time to acknowledge and celebrate your courage, regardless of the outcome. Recognizing your efforts reinforces your commitment to boldness and encourages you to continue pushing boundaries. Keep a journal or create a visual representation of your risk-taking journey, noting the moments that made you proud. </strong></p><p><strong>Don’t be afraid to share your victories, however small, with your support network. You might be surprised at how much others want to see you succeed. Celebrating your wins, no matter how small, can create a positive feedback loop that motivates further action.</strong></p><figure id="figure-wik4j1summm2nqs4i9"><img id="wik4j1summm2nqs4i9" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1519337265831-281ec6cc8514?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxNDR8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1NzMyfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="person typing on laptop computer" title="person typing on laptop computer" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1519337265831-281ec6cc8514?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxNDR8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1NzMyfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>9. Learn from Every Experience</h3><p><strong>Every risk you take, whether it leads to success or failure, offers valuable lessons. Reflect on your experiences and identify what you learned from them. This practice fosters a growth mindset and prepares you for future challenges.</strong></p><p><strong> Instead of saying “I’m never going to do that again,” after a less than perfect outcome, try saying to yourself, “next time, this is what I’ll do differently.” The more you learn to extract wisdom from each experience, the more confident you’ll become in taking future risks.</strong></p><figure id="figure-w04a499a2m2nqrz2w"><img id="w04a499a2m2nqrz2w" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1515378960530-7c0da6231fb1?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1N3x8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="person sitting front of laptop" title="person sitting front of laptop" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1515378960530-7c0da6231fb1?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1N3x8V3JpdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3MDY4OTQ5Njl8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>10. Remember: Life is Short</h3><p><strong>Finally, it’s essential to remember that life is finite. The days can blend together, and opportunities can slip away if we’re too cautious. Taking risks can lead to unforgettable experiences and a life rich with meaning. </strong></p><p><strong>Embrace the idea that every risk taken can open new doors, leading you to experiences that shape who you are.</strong></p><figure id="figure-8zs5d7gvbwm2nqrsnd"><img id="8zs5d7gvbwm2nqrsnd" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1493723843671-1d655e66ac1c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOTh8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1ODE4fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="white Apple Magic Mouse beside of Magic Keyboard and headphones" title="white Apple Magic Mouse beside of Magic Keyboard and headphones" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1493723843671-1d655e66ac1c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOTh8fFdyaXRpbmd8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2ODk1ODE4fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2>Conclusion</h2><blockquote><p>Being bold and taking risks is not just an act of courage; it’s an invitation to live life fully. By stepping outside your comfort zone, reframing failure, and celebrating your journey, you can unlock new possibilities and discover your true potential. The path to boldness may be challenging, but the rewards—growth, resilience, and fulfillment—are well worth it. So take a deep breath, trust yourself, and dare to embrace the unknown.&nbsp;</p></blockquote><p><br></p>

Embrace Boldness: The Power of Taking Risks

Why Multitasking Is Not Our Friend: The Case for Focused Work

Deborah Parman

Deborah Parman is a debut author whose first book, Oh, Now I Get It!, draws from personal experiences to explore how everyday moments often carry deeper spiritual meaning. A retired business professor with a background in journalism, she blends storytelling, insight, and faith across genres including narrative fiction, self-help, and children’s literature. Now living in Nebraska, Deborah continues to write while enjoying travel, gardening, and time with her family.